Having A New Baby Does Not Need To Create Stress
July 1, 2010 by Byron Jonas
Filed under Home Family
Once a new baby arrives in the house, it may not be everything that people had expected. Babies which are seen on television, in commercials, and in movies spend most of their time smiling and happy. Then they quickly disappear. There is no baby that is happy all of the time, and once they have come home, they are there to stay.
The truth is that babies can be very noisy. Some are born screaming, and seem to not stop for many months. Although this is not always the case, it is important for parents to be realistic in their expectations. No matter the level of frustration and exhaustion, new parents should always remind themselves that even though it may not seem so, this is a temporary situation.
Sleep, or rather the lack there of, is one of the biggest issues facing new parents. Late nights awake with a hungry, fussy, or inconsolable child will soon leave a person feeling tired on almost a regular basis. Being creative with sleep can help to make the situation more manageable. When the baby sleeps it is a good idea to take a nap. Even if this means sleeping at very strange times throughout the day, this is fine, until the child is on a regular schedule.
Remember not to become overextended. Although everyone may look forward to the annual family barbecue, this may be a good year for someone else to play host. Too much time spent away from the baby, while working on a major project may create even more stress and sleep deprivation. It is also impossible to anticipate a fussy or sick child. It probably is best to wait for another year.
Do not be offended by offers to help. Sure most new parents want to keep the baby to themselves at least for a little while, but establishing a support network is a great idea. People who offer to help with laundry, cooking, and other chores and errands can be a life saver. Seriously, some new parents may be surprised at how happy they are to have free time even to take a shower.
Babies all grow according to their own schedule. Although there are some major milestones to be watched for, parents should relax when it comes to making sure that the child is on track. As long as there are no signs of a problem, most babies are just fine. Be careful not to compare, this could set a very ugly precedent.
A new baby can bring joy to a home, without adding stress.
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